Practical Sexuality
Help me out with a thought I’m pondering.
The practical difference between the predominant culture’s attitude towards sex and the Christian is? I’m not asking for Sunday School definitions of sex but rather how lives are lived. The idea I’m incubating is that the Christian world and the World world are pretty much in agreement on sex, with a few contrasts. My (perhaps cynical?) comparison:
Sex is primarily for…
Worldly Wally: My own personal enjoyment!
Christian Carl: My own personal enjoyment! But only if you’re married, I mean.
The Reproductive Result of Sex is…
Worldly Wally: To be avoided if at all possible, unless you decide you want kids.
Christian Carl: To be avoided if at all possible, unless you decide you want kids.
If Sex Does result in Pregnancy…
Worldly Wally: Be happy if you wanted a baby. Be sad if you didn’t. Grow frustrated that you’ve become pregnant when you did not want to. Get rid of it if you feel like it.
Christian Carl: Be happy if you wanted a baby. Be sad if you didn’t. Grow frustrated that you’ve become pregnant when you did not want to. But whatever you do, you can’t get rid of it! (It’s a blessing, after all).
After the pregnancy has been resolved…
Worldly Wally: Take the necessary steps to make sure that sex and pregnancy happen on my terms.
Christian Carl: Take the necessary steps to make sure that sex and pregnancy happen on my terms.
So, yeah? Are the only things that practically separate the Church from the World in this matter “No abortions” and “Only have sex with your spouse?”. Is that really all there is?


